Laugh at it?
13 Oct 2011 Leave a Comment
in Friendship, Reality of Life
When I feel difficult to forgive someone or somebody, it makes me thinking that I’m worthy enough for forgiveness and redemption from Him? In some case for my life, I knew that it’s not so easy to release and forget those things easily, especially for someone who close to me or have a long relationship history with me. It easy to avoid that kind of person we hate and it’s not so easy if the person appears in front of us. In my case, it’s like a circle of life. I already forgave one fault and the same person, doing it again (hurting me again) for other case. I think it such a waste of time by doing the good relationship if there is no reciprocal from the other side, isn’t it?
I intend to have a good relationship, I’m trying to make it right and now it’s time to make things clear, straight and to the point. Release it and let it go…. It’s a healthy rationalize thinking when we’re in a healthy mind. Instead, a lot of person did otherwise. They let themselves being hurt again and again. Are they masochist person? Who knows?
I realize that I can’t trust the people who lied or misused me. I can give them a chance to do the otherwise but the whole process by trusting them 100% full, I think it’s rather difficult to do it at the first time but I believe that people need second chance. I dont want to justify my action or my habit but for some people, they do not want to learn and repent.
Thankfully, we have wonderful and Almighty God who can sense and knew our deepest feeling and weakness. He always cheer us up by doing something. He could do a lot of ways to make us happy. Trying to reminiscence the old days, and be wonder that He did it. Maybe it’s not a marvelous way to make us laugh but it worked on us.
Those case goes to my brother who sometimes looks on things as a simple case and often laughing at me. Sometimes, I share my problem with him whether he’s seven years younger than me. When I heard that he’s laugh, I think that I’m so silly by thinking it too much. Most of women always an emotional person who always connect with feeling.
So, when some case it’s a neutral case and we can discussing it with other men, we can share with them and listen to their opinion, maybe we take it too much by ourselves. It’s really worked and also reduce the stress itself.
Other alternative is by doing a lot of activities which need our attention. I’m doing it also by learning new language. It’s so much fun indeed because our teacher is very supportive person. I’m enjoying it. Whether I don’t do a lot of talk with other course member, just a simple talk, I enjoy it.
Back to my feeling, I think about it lately. I make my own decision, why I’m still bear a grudge about her action? It’s not healthy, Yovita. I hate her action. You must move on. God has wonderful plan for you. Don’t waste your time by doing such an useless thing! OK, I’m done over it. God help me to always have a heart like You, who easily to forgive our mistakes. I choose to be happy.
